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On The Day...

you will be required to call Me (within a 15 minute time scale) on the day and time arranged (this will vary depending what time your session is) to confirm and to acquire the address.
your number will be programmed into My phone (so I will know it's you when you call).
Don't worry, I do not store numbers nor will I call you afterwards or send you texts. your number is deleted.
If you are late calling (without notice) or do not call, I will consider your appointment cancelled.
I will cease all communication and will never allow you to session with Me.

I expect you to arrive in a clean, smart condition. So take a shower/bath before you leave home.
Unfortunately I no longer have bathroom facilities for you to use as My own are private. If you are travelling a long way on the day I suggest you book into a Guest House/B&B/Travel Lodge/or other motel establishment to freshen up. Barring that, use body wipes in a service station! 
However, If I think you stink and you do, I take tribute for My trouble and you go home. Capisce?

It amazes Me how some people do not have the knowledge of even basic personal hygiene, so make the same effort with hygiene as I do.
you wouldn't like it if you arrived for session and I hadn't thoroughly bathed, cleaned My teeth or had fresh breath would you huh? No, I think not.
Please ensure:
• you are freshly bathed.
• you use deodrant. If you smell, I dont mess about, I will turn you away.
• you are not too heavy with the after-shave. As a suggestion "Kouros" is My favourite!
• you clean your teeth and use a mouth wash. If your breath is bad, you will be turned away.
• If you're a smoker and enjoy a coffee, do not have a smoke or a coffee at least half an hour before you see Me. Cigarette/Coffee breath is foul.
• If your session includes anal, you MUST clean yourself in and out before I will go anywhere near your bottom.
• Be Smartly dressed. No scruffy work clothes. Show some respect, make an effort.
• Do whatever you feel necessary to be mentally and physically prepared for the session.

If needed W/we can have a little chat to clarify your interests, hopes and expectations further.
All this information, though, will be covered during your application process and/or confirmation call prior to the session.
Limits will be clarified and a safe word chosen (if it hasn't already been done and you are new to Me).

I prefer a safeword if I haven't seen you before. Although I am very perceptive of a slaves body language I do prefer safewords to be used at first. It doesn't mean I have given control to you and it doesn't make Me any less experienced or Dominant as some in the scene would protest.
I am indeed VERY experienced (10 years) and naturally Dominant. I feel it makes Me more aware of the individual in front of Me.

If you would prefer to session with no safeword, then this must be discussed prior to the session.
 

I am not remotely interested in subs/slaves that simply say they wish to be Dominated and show zero imagination nor am I interested in those that show no emotion or feeling during a session.
I like interaction - I like to see reactions - I like to see ALL your emotions!
Although I am multi talented, I cannot read your mind! If you wish to have the session conducted in silence, this needs to be fully discussed well before the session commences.

Once your session is over W/we can have a little chat in regards to it. I may offer you refreshments (if needed).
I will also give you time to wind down and smarten up.
Although I am generous with my time and will not hurry you out of the door, you will not loiter or take My generosity for granted.

• DO be prompt for your appointment. No earlier or later than the time given. I have a schedule to uphold.

• DO remember that the Chamber is in a VERY residential area. I live on the premises and appreciate your absolute discretion and respect for My home and neighbours. Discretion works B/both ways here! If you are a TV/CD, do not arrive dressed, save it for inside.

• DO NOT be put off by it being residential - only you know why you are there, no-one else!
None of My neighbours either on the street nor in the building knows about My chambers.
If you draw attention to yourself then passers by will maybe look on you as being abit suspicious.
you will enter through My back gate and straight into the chamber, which has a separate and private entrance. For details, see LOCATION

• DO give yourself plenty of time.
Make allowances for the traffic around the busy city. If you are late, I may not be available to see you. Be aware, if you have kept Me waiting, I will not want to see you!.

• DO NOT be under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol. I will not want to session with you.

• DO NOT bring a detailed list. you may bring a letter outlining areas of interest for My perusal. If you want a fantasy played out to your every detail a Professional Dominatrix is not what you need. I suggest you visit an escort.

• DO NOT attend session with Me if you are tired, hungry or unwell at all.
Ensure you have plenty of sleep, have a sensible meal and are in good condition to session.

• DO NOT haggle tribute, always offer it to Me in a clean white envelope with My name neatly and clearly written on the front prior to the session start. The contents will be checked for mistakes and any discrepancies will/must be rectified.
Do not take offence of this, it is for B/both O/our benefits.

• DO NOT expect relief as gospel. If you are lucky enough to get it, you will do it yourself or I will attach one of My masturbators on you.
I may manipulate you but that is for My amusement and is not a means to allow you relief. If your sole purpose to visit is relief, go elsewhere.

By all means email, call or text to inform Me of such, giving Me as much notice as possible (1 hour minimum).
I am not interested in your reason, just as long as I know.
I do realise that some things can be unavoidable, so a simple call or text is sufficient in this case.
Be aware that preparations for your session start long before you arrive.
I work on a 48 hour notice (sometimes less, depending if I have seen you before) booking basis and become a tad pissed-off when someone doesn't show without a word.
Its rude, crude and socially unacceptable.
I wouldn't waste your time, so don't waste Mine!
It would be futile to call/email after-the-fact and try to re-schedule, I will not allow you in My presence EVER!!

Bringing a gift is NOT mandatory but it is a lovely gesture and I really do appreciate the thought.
To give you an idea:
I LOVE to receive freshly cut deep red roses, Lillies or Carnations (NOT from a supermarket or a garage forecourt).

Please do NOT bring chocolates or wine - there are only so many One can consume! lol

Larger, Anonymous or "from afar" gifts can be found on the Gifts page.

• 24/7 slaves
• A maid for My home or Chamber
• A sex-slave - pleasure slave
• A web-slave
• A Dominant male that is looking for a challenge i.e. for a Dominant Woman to beat him down.
• Switches (Female or male) just keep on moving!

WARNING
Dominas in the South West area of the UK run in a tight circle, as do the ones in the rest of the UK, so your reputation is on the line.
We discuss trouble makers and no-shows frequently, so behave and show some respect.
This is My passion, I take it VERY seriously, It is NOT a hobby or a joke.

I am a nice and genuine person and I deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. My time is precious and should not be wasted.
If you do maliciously waste My time I will have no hesitation than to pass your details onto other Dominants in the South West and others I know throughout the UK.

Before Session...

About Safewords...

No Safeword?...

During Session...

After Session...

Important Do's & Dont's...

Cannot Attend?

Bringing A Gift